Recognizing Different Perspectives

Japan is composed of many small islands, and the constriction from lack of natural resources and living space on the islands and close proximity to an overbearing country like China, created an environment that required social cooperation to avoid conflict or disasters. Less space meant living in constant close proximity with others, less resources meant rationing. Therefore Japanese people today continue to rely on social cues and etiquette, like ba no kuuki wo yomu (場の空気を読む) “reading the atmosphere” or rather “understanding the situation without words”. The result is a collective society that values social harmony, preservation of similar values, and preventing and shaming disruptive behavior that would hinder the daily functions of society. 

 In Japan, traces of collectivism can be observed through strict rules and specific attitudes towards social behaviors or traditions. For example:

  • Sound sensitivity and awareness: In Tokyo, most Japanese people live in apartment complexes. So when living in such close proximity with others, Japanese people believe you should not disturb others with loud sounds. This includes chatting outside someone’s home, especially at night, you’ll get scolded by the home owner if they can hear you. 
  • Appropriate dress: In Japan, people always dress appropriately for the occasion, whether it means following the latest fashion trend or wearing their school or work uniform,  a value upheld by the Japanese phrase deru kui wa utareru (出る杭は打たれる), “the nail that sticks out must be hammered down” or rather “don’t be a distraction” or “don’t make a scene”.

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