A few Japanese women explained that some prefer group settings when they’re interested in someone. It reduces the pressure and helps them observe a guy’s behavior in a more relaxed environment. It’s a way to "gather information" about someone’s personality, how they treat others, and their vibe.
I also learned that movie dates are sometimes considered a good first date in Japan. I used to think movie dates were kind of lame because you can’t see each other or get to know each other (since you have to be quiet). But some Japanese women prefer getting to know someone in this setting because it take the pressure off direct conversation and is a fun, low-pressure environment.
8. What have you learned about Japanese student life or culture through your participation?
One major thing I learned is how important the third year of university is for Japanese students. That’s when job hunting begins. Some of my friends are already working—one works at a wagashi (Japanese sweets shop, which I think is awesome. One of my other friends is still applying to jobs. She’s had several job interviews already. I’m rooting for her. I just know she’ll get hired eventually! がんばれ！
9. How has this circle helped you feel more integrated into campus life or Japanese society? If so, how?
