My friend’s coworker is called “Smalls” because he is quite short, whereas his twin brother is called “Big” because he is taller than Smalls!
Acts of Service in the Philippines
There are many ways to express affection and care in the Philippines. Whereas many Americans offer hugs or phrases like “I love you,” acts of service are a more common way of expressing care for many Filipinos. This means performing actions that help those around, such as cooking, errands and chores or offering to host or tour visitors around. Filipino people are known for their hearts of service, particularly how they notice what you like or need and meet that need without you even having to ask!
Food Culture
Filipino culture places a strong emphasis on hospitality, which is very obvious when it comes to food! Food is shared in large serving dishes, encouraging bonding through shared meals. In my office, no one brings individual packed lunches like we did in my workplace in the United States. Instead, we take turns cooking rice and dapli (entree, or meat-based dish) to be shared! I have noticed my coworkers take small servings of dapli and side dishes of fruits and veggies, ensuring everyone has gotten enough to eat before going back for seconds.
Filipino people ensure their visitors and family members have enough to eat. Halfway through lunchtime, my older coworkers are guaranteed to chime, “Miss Erika, eat more!” When I arrive at my office in the morning, they also ask, “Have you eaten yet?” before offering me some of their own food. Here, it is customary to offer a taste of your snack or meal to those around you!
