This tradition exists because Sepedi culture places deep value on unity and shared identity. Weddings are not only about the two people getting married but is also about joining the families and strengthening the bonds within the whole community. By opening the celebration to everyone, the village shows collective support for the couple and reinforces the belief that marriage is a shared responsibility. It also shows the joyful energy of the community, as people genuinely love gathering together, sharing a good meal and taking any opportunity to dance.
Yes, the tradition is strongly connected to the rural environment of Limpopo. Many villages are close-knit, with families who have lived near one another for generations. Some may even share daily responsibilities like farming, caregiving and other community projects. Since people live in close community structures, large gatherings are expected. The environment supports a lifestyle where people move freely between households and participate in the lives of one another. Everyone's gate is always open!
