Although these stereotypes were intimidating, I soon realized that integrating into a culture has less to do with Finns and more to do with me!
When you meet someone from a new culture or even move to a new country, I think that it is important to remember two things. First, don't be a "culture chameleon" and toss aside who you are to fit in. For example, many Finns are quiet and reserved, but I am outgoing and loud. I have found many Finns also enjoy laughing and joking just as loudly as I do when they get to know me, and that I have learned to listen and reflect more in the presence of Finns. You don't have to sacrifice who you are to integrate into another culture, even if it is very different from your own.
Second, and most importantly, no matter where you are in the world, the people of different cultures you meet will still be...well, people! When you meet someone from another culture, yes, you are still taking a lot of risks. There may be many embarrassing misunderstandings and awkward moments. However, all of my new friends like watching sunsets, making new friends and eating ice cream, like me. We all care about the same issues in the world and are working to make the world a better place. When you stop and think about it, integrating into another culture is less about learning the "rules" of that new place and more about broadening your flexibility and stretching your mind to include a bigger picture of the world and what it means to be human. Integrating into another culture is not easy, but it will teach you a lot about yourself, the world and the beautiful tapestry of people you share it with.
